A FRESH ARTICLE :: WHEN DID TRUST BECOME DUMB
FROM OUR FRIENDS OVER AT THEFRESHXPRESS -
I must have missed a memo or two along the way. It seems today that women who choose to trust men who are seen as ‘undeserving’ of them are considered to be making a stupid decision. You know, if he’s a player, you’re an idiot to fall for him. If he’s lied before, you’re foolish to ever believe him again. If he’s slipped in any way, it’s only a daft woman who’d allow him a chance to do it once more.
Usually it’s your girlfriends that are quick to point this out to you, to highlight the flaws in your man lest you make the regrettable decision to give him your trust. His background will be heavily scrutinized, his sexual resume considered and dissected and the doubts about him aired and discussed. As it should be.
Trust is a gift. It should be given carefully, and to those are deemed fit to receive it. What confuses me to no end is when a woman decides to trust someone that other people consider untrustworthy, and she gets backlash from them. Suddenly, her judgment and rationality are called into question, and people may even develop contempt towards her for making a choice that they consider to be foolish.
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